How to be polite in Greek – A guide for language learners

Learning Greek is not just about mastering vocabulary and grammar; it’s also about understanding the importance of being polite—not only in formal environments but also in casual settings with friends or family. Below you will find some tips to help you understand Greek politeness effortlessly and start using them right away!

1. Λίγο (a little, a bit)

In Greek, “λίγο” softens requests, making them more polite. In the following contexts it serves as a politeness marker rather than strictly indicating “a little” or “a bit”.  It can accompany both verbs and nouns, and when used with nouns, it is declined according to gender and number:

  • Verbs (λίγο):

    • Μπορείς να με βοηθήσεις λίγο; (Can you help me a little?)
    • Μπορείς να έρθεις λίγο; (Can you come for a bit?)
  • Nouns (declined):

    • Θα ήθελα λίγη ζάχαρη στον καφέ μου. (Ι would like a little sugar in my coffee) – Feminine noun in accusative
    • Θέλω να πάρω λίγο γάλα. (I want to take a little milk.) – Neuter noun in accusative
    • Έχεις λίγο χρόνο; (Do you have a little time?) – Masculine noun in accusative

2. Παρακαλώ (please)

In Greek, “παρακαλώ” encapsulates politeness and a request for consideration. 

  • Θα ήθελα λίγο νερό, παρακαλώ. (I would like a little water, please.)
  • Έχετε λίγο χρόνο, παρακαλώ; (Do you have a little time, please?)
  • Μπορείς να έρθεις εδώ, παρακαλώ; (Can you come here, please?)

3. Mήπως (perhaps)

The word “μήπως” in Greek is indeed used in questions to add politeness or to soften the request. It can be placed at the beginning of a sentence, but not necessarily; it can also appear later in the sentence for stylistic or emphatic reasons. Here are examples to illustrate its usage in different positions:

  1. Beginning of the sentence (common position):

    • Μήπως μπορώ να έχω λίγο νερό; (Could I have a little water?)
    • Μήπως ξέρεις τι ώρα είναι; (Do you happen to know what time it is?)
  2. Middle of the sentence (for emphasis or variation):

    • Μπορώ μήπως να έχω λίγο νερό; (Could I have a little water, by any chance?)
    • Ξέρεις μήπως τι ώρα είναι; (Do you perhaps know what time it is?)
  3. End of the sentence (less common, used for particular emphasis):

    • Μπορώ να έχω λίγο νερό μήπως; (Could I have a little water, maybe?)
    • Ξέρεις τι ώρα είναι μήπως; (Do you know what time it is, by any chance?)

In these examples, “μήπως” retains its polite and questioning nature regardless of its position within the sentence.

⚠ Ίσως vs Μήπως
Greek learners οften confuse these two because they both deal with possibility, but “μήπως” is exclusively for questions and adds politeness, while “ίσως” is more versatile and can be used in statements and questions (when placed at the end of the sentence).


4. Θα μπορούσα...; (Could I...?)

Using “θα μπορούσα” in Greek reflects a polite way to make requests or ask for permissions. It conveys respect towards the person you are addressing. Here are a few more examples to illustrate its usage:

  1. Requesting permission:

    • Θα μπορούσα να μπω στο γραφείο σoυ για λίγο; (Could I come into your office for a moment?)
    • Θα μπορούσα να ανοίξω το παράθυρο; (Could I open the window?)
  2. Making requests:

    • Θα μπορούσα να σε καλέσω αργότερα; (Could I call you later?)
    • Θα μπορούσα να έχω ένα ποτήρι νερό; (Could I have a glass of water?)

5. Θα μπορούσες...; / Θα μπορούσες ίσως/μήπως...? (Could you...? / Could you perhaps...?)

When using “θα μπορούσες” in Greek, it maintains the polite and respectful tone for making requests, similar to “θα μπορούσα.” Adding “ίσως” (perhaps) further enhances the courtesy and politeness of the request. Here are some expanded examples to illustrate this:

    • Θα μπορούσες να με βοηθήσεις με αυτήν την εργασία;  (Could you help me with this assignment?)
    • Θα μπορούσες ίσως/μήπως να έρθεις εδώ τώρα; (Could you perhaps come here now?)

By incorporating these expressions, Greek learners will sound more polite and natural in conversations. Politeness enhances communication in both formal and informal interactions, making your Greek more effective and respectful.

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3 thoughts on “How to be polite in Greek – A guide for language learners

  1. Thank you as always Lydia. Would you recommend μήπως as the right tone of politeness if you’re asking for a chair / seat in a crowded place eg you need to take an empty chair at someone’s table or they have their bag on a bus seat?

    1. Οf course!
      Here are some examples:
      1. Μήπως μπορώ / θα μπορούσα να πάρω την καρέκλα;
      2. Μήπως χρειάζεστε την καρέκλα;
      3. Μήπως μπορείτε / θα μπορούσατε να πάρετε την τσάντα σας;

      Let me know if you have more questions!

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